10 most important ingredients in a Female Led Relationship)

This will be a bit longer post than usual as I am sharing my relationship that I have with my small penis husband to whom I have been married to for 10 years and love very much and in a FLR with him for approximately 3 years. The tide is changing with relationships between men and women whereas women are beginning to become the aggressor and are increasing their sexual behavior.

My sole purpose today is for me to explain the benefits of Female Led Relationships and for you to recognize the benefits and implement them fully into your relationship. Listed below are my 10 BEST tips (There are so many more) that I have been writing about over the two past years and hopefully this will inspire you to lead a successful FLR with your partner.
- TEASE & DENIAL In a FLR, you must deny any small penis man intercourse, oral sex and full orgasms for extended periods of time. Always extending the time thereafter. However, the most important thing to do is for you to keep him engaged and attentive sexually without providing sex but with only sph (small penis humiliation) on a consistent basis. Like a bone in front of a dog sort of speak. How you do this is very easy. Set your phone as a daily reminder to send him a text message every day. Here are some of my favorite text messages that I either text or outright tell my husband:
You have a small penis and are not deserving of having sex with me
Want to lick me tonight? If so, you can’t cum. You have 2 minutes to reply
I want you to fuck me…..Oh sorry I meant to send this to my hung BF
I was never able to feel you inside of me – so you are not deserving of sex anytime.
Want to cum tonight? Maybe I will let you jerk yourself off
No pussy for you
DENIAL is for the small penis man
I am so horny – but need a guy with a big cock to satisfy me
I am not wearing any panties and I will be back later
REMEMBER and I cannot stress this enough - it is always important to TEASE, TEASE, TEASE and then DENY, DENY, DENY and then when the time comes RUIN, RUIN RUIN his orgasm!!

- ORGASMS – ALL Orgasms for the small penis man are a privilege and must be earned thru good behavior. Any man that have a small penis are ONLY deserving of RUINED orgasms. They should under no circumstance receive a full orgasm. That is being too nice. I promise you that with ruined orgasms he will be more attentive and kinder to you and as a result you will be happier. So stroke him, stop, stroke him, stop (keep repeating) then ruin his orgasm or have him stroke himself initially until he is about to cum and then you lightly stroke him using 1-2 fingers and stop just as he is ready to cum so he does not enjoy a full orgasm and just leaks cum.

OR, use a magic vibrating wand or vibrator on his penis until he cums and keep constant contact.
This is the ULTIMATE mind fuck- take one of your favorite vibrators and either duct tape it or wrap it with rope around his penis and turn it on. You also need to do bind his wrists with the same duct tape or the rope so he doesn’t pull the vibrator off himself. VOLA - no sexual participation on your part and it will inflict pain as you will want to keep the vibrator on for several minutes after he had an orgasm. You may want to stuff your panties in his mouth for extra fun. You can tell him that you are being extra sweet to him by doing so. Something else that seriously should be considered… you should not be naked while ruining his orgasms. Wearing something sexy but having your breasts and vagina covered are a must consideration. AS a small penis man, he is not deserving of this privilege.

- FINDING A MATE – As a Hot wife in a FLR it is your right and privilege to have sex with anyone at any time or place that you choose. This includes, friends, co-workers, neighbors or any guy you have just met. Having sex with a man with a Large cock is so addicting and thrilling. Whether you want to have virtual sex (sex by emails, sexting or phone sex) or physical sex here are the sites that you should visit and become a member. Some of the most popular sex dating sites are Alt.com, fetlife.com, tinder.com Try any of the following for a three-month term and then switch to the ones you like the best. I have been on all three sites and my husband was fully aware that I was a member of these sex sites. Make sure you don’t use your real name, do not include a face picture but include a sexy pic that you find on the web, use a different town location and set up a new email account that is used just for having fun. Sharing the stories of your new friends with your small penis man is half the fun and it also provides him with honesty and transparency on your part. I promise you that once you post an ad on this site, you won’t have enough time in the day to respond to your new friends. Or you can search the sites and pick the men that you are most interested in. Either way, it is quite fun to enjoy ALL the attention that you will receive.

- COCK CAGES – Even though I have not implemented locking my husband’s small penis up initially. Their may be a time in the future where that will change. Many of my followers have shared their story about either being locked up or locking the denied man in their life up. In all honesty, it truly is best that any man that you are denying sex to should be locked up. As you would have peace of mind that he would not be jerking off behind your back or having sex with other women behind your back. I have been told that stainless steel is a bit heavier but is by far safer and better for personal hygiene to wear than plastic. What I also like about the stainless-steel cage is that you can use any of your vibrators and touch his cage with it and make him cum without even taking the cage off. But you should take it off randomly just to show that you are not a total bitch. Some of my other followers have written and told me that their man’s penis has shrunk over the years of being locked 24/7. I am not sure if there is any scientific proof that locking up a penis will shrink a penis but please feel free to write me and share your experience.


- DRESS TO IMPRESS– Wearing sexy lingerie in bed is a great way to tease your man. Especially if the material covers your breasts and vagina. However, wearing sexy outfits when leaving the house can also be quite fun and you will immediately notice the attention that you receive. Very simply as you just have to wear the following: High heel shoes or boots, low cut top exposing your breasts, push up sexy bra and tight jeans or leggings. Men will be following you around like puppy dogs. Let the fun begin!


- CUM – This holds true only for the small penis man in your life - No longer should you swallow his cum, allow him to cum inside of your vagina or butt and no longer should he be allowed to cum anywhere on your body, breasts or face ever again. Note the woman fully clothed while the man is naked as she is ruining his orgasm accordingly and he is cumming on himself.

Going forward, only your well hung BF should be allowed to cum in and on you and your small penis man is NOT.
This is the proper way in a FLR.


- ANKLE BRACELET – Purchase one and wear it as you wish.

- WEDDING RINGS – Should not be worn by the Hot wife in a FLR. The only exception that I recommend is there may be an occasion when you are going to meet your BF. Have him shoot his cum all over your wedding rings, snap a picture and text the picture to your small penis man. But this should be the only time when you wear your wedding band or engagement ring.

- HONESTY – The only way successful FLR relationships work is being totally honest with your small penis man. Tell him when you are going out to meet your BF, when you just had sex, if your BF came inside, or if you sucked off your co-worker after hours, or if you think someone has the hots for you. You get the idea. I have had many of my followers write to me and share their stories with the steamy sex that they have had with people after hours at their place of business. SO HOT!

- TEASE, DENIAL, RUINED - Repeat after me – Refer back to #1. This FLR ONLY works when you keep reminding your small penis man daily. Just a short text or whisper it in his ear. Then when it comes time to ruin his orgasm, the cum should only be covering him and not you. What I do not like about the picture below is the woman is exposing her breasts. She should be more covered up. Have fun with your Female Led Relationship Lifestyle and make it our own.

